When it comes to successfully building your online home
business, relationships can pull you up or down, and here’s
how to take control!
Famous motivational speaker Jim Rohn used to teach:
We are the average of the five individuals we hang around with
the most. This assertion is based on the Law of Averages, and it
is extremely important for your success because it means as you
habitually relate with other folks, you will be influenced by
them for better or for worse; therefore it would be wise to
consciously select our relations based on our ultimate business
goal.
The first step of this process should be to assess current
relationships and how they might contribute to our progress or
detract from it. Next, to bring about a positive effect from
your associations, some drastic decisions may have to be
made; if you don’t, you will inevitably experience the
opposite. Moreover, when you choose to connect with the right
type of people, there will be much to learn from them; therefore,
it is necessary to be open to new ideas.
The Right Kind of People Move You Forward
Choose right and your relationships will be like fuel to help
you get to where you want. You must have a well-defined
mindset based on what you want to accomplish, and decidedly
choose to relate with folks who are already there, as well as
those heading in the same direction and further along than you.
It would not take very long to find these people are positive
thinkers and action-takers. These are precisely the kind you
need to associate with, since they share similar aspirations as
you and understand what it takes to achieve them. They will
inspire you, challenge you, and energize your dreams and
aspirations. Those who are well advanced will display good
leadership skills, others, like you, will be underway.
Nevertheless, relationships are a two-way street, so feel free to
share your own ideas, but, do not try to reinvent the wheel.
Since your purpose is to learn as much as possible, you need to
have a humble learner attitude, in order to tip the scale in your
favor. Allow yourself to be led by these likeminded individuals
and little by little you will be molded into their traits. These
selected few are your lifters!
Set Aside the Detractors
It shouldn’t be difficult to identify who is likely to be holding
back your progress. Detractors are like a heavy weight pulling
you down, therefore it is necessary to deal with them
appropriately. Realize anyone with a negative opinion of your
plans will take away the drive and enthusiasm needed to
succeed. Sadly, this can include your own family and close
friends. When it comes to family, they may be acting out of
ignorance, trying to keep you from a possible fall, or simply
influencing you according to what they think is best. Family is
important, consequently, you should not disconnect from them
or drive them out of your life; simply and kindly keep them out
of your business. As far as friends is concerned, you might have
to be a bit more drastic, discern who is really your friend, and
ditch the rest. For example, suppose you frequently hang out
with some friends who work a regular 9-5 schedule, get together
to play pool or get a drink at least a couple of nights a week,
and are always looking forward to the weekend to have fun at
the ocean, dancing or whatever. Not that there is anything
wrong with entertainment within measure, but, what would
happen if you told them you plan to build an online business
which will allow you to fire your boss, get rich and live life on
your terms?
Most likely they will say you are crazy, just dreaming, and
maybe even scoff at the idea. This would be at the very least
discouraging, and depending on your character it might even
tear you down badly. Either due to jealousy or ignorance, these
folks do not want you to succeed because it would prove they
are losers going nowhere fast. As author Cynthia Occelli says:
“When people seek to undermine your dreams, predict your
doom, or criticize you, remember, they’re telling you their
story, not yours.” Besides, your buddies will pull you their way
when you really need to be focusing on your goals!
Join a Successful Community
An online group of people who are knowledgeable on your
chosen line of work and willing to help, is an excellent way to
instantly improve your business circle. Note I am not talking
about the endless number of social groups on the web, where
folks are either wasting time sharing nonsense or fishing for
prospects; these would only distract you and actually rob you of
valuable time. The right kind of community allows you to
cultivate relationships with likeminded individuals whose
experience would contribute to your progress. In it you will find
positive people, who are go-getters, whom you can learn from,
and with whom you can exchange ideas with – what is known as
Master Minding. Typically this type of environment is found
where members receive incentives for being active participants
and helping others. I have personally found these advantages at
the Wealthy Affiliate support forum. It is the prime example of
a social business community one can rely on to be on your side
if you ever need any help. Here are some of the benefits you can
enjoy as a member of this awesome community:
• Asking any questions you may have
• Getting help defining your direction
• Learning from other members postings
• Interacting with well advanced folks
• Getting response on your ideas
• Comments and feedback on your projects
• Receiving incentives for participating and helping others
What You Can Do Right Now
At this point in your life you may be wanting to get started
working online, you have the desire to supplement or replace
your income with Internet Marketing, or you have begun on
your journey to web profits and you’re looking for information
to help you define or improve your course of action. Whichever
the case, I sincerely hope you have found this article
helpful, and I would like to encourage you to take a step
in the right direction, by checking out, absolutely FREE,
the Wealthy Affiliate platform and community.
You could do so by reading other articles on this blog, such as…
How to Brand Yourself Online and Increase Your Income
or better yet…
CREATE A FREE WEALTHY AFFILIATE ACCOUNT
As a final word, I challenge you to take that next step to bring
you closer to your ultimate goal. You must believe in yourself
and act like the successful entrepreneur you want to be. It is
crucial to understand you must get out of your comfort zone and
start doing what you have not done before in order to make
progress. Wishful thinking will not get you anywhere; a positive
mindset backed up with action will put you in the right track.
Even if you are a beginner, do not under estimate yourself; be
positive, get moving, and you will become a leader and inspire
people to follow you to the top.
If you have questions or comments, you can drop them below,
if not, please just say HELLO!
Best regards,
Edwin
Yes I have heard that from a Jim Rohn quote and it really is very true! I am so pleased I am part of a great inspiring community myself. There really is no other way you will succeed. Great article!
Hello there! I’m looking for a part time job online. I have plenty of spare time to put in but only have decent amount of money to invest. I heard great things about wealthy affiliate and also I read that you mention wealthy affiliate. Do you think that wealthy affiliate is a great way to earn extra money online?
Thanks Sharon,
glad you enjoyed my article; hopefully you’ll also find value in other pages of this blog.
I think it’s funny my mother used to warn me about who I hung out with as a kid; definitely wisdom transcends time! (LOL)
Yes, the support of a helpful community is critical for new home entrepreneurs; this is one of the top reasons I promote WA as an excellent vehicle for anyone with the desire to earn online.
Blessings!
Hi John,
glad to learn you’re looking to earn online.
Yes, WA is definitely a great platform to start your own home business, so you’ll never need a job again!
Obviously I’m bias (LOL), but, you can find out for yourself it’s an awesome opportunity with a FREE account, then you can invest into your enterprise as you see fit.
Once inside, you won’t get hit with annoying upsales; instead, you’ll get transparent, straight forward info to help you choose your best course of action, and I’ll be there to assist you as needed.
With the Black Friday Special around the corner, it’s a perfect time to save a bundle too, so be sure to check out that option.
Cheers!
Hi Edwin. Thanks for presenting the amazing opportunity known as the Wealthy Affiliate University.
I haven’t found another place like this as it is the only place that I know of that will take you, teach you all of the ins and outs of affiliate marketing, and then put you right into the spotlight for success.
I am glad to have found this platform.
Hey Jacob,
I’m happy you appreciate Wealthy Affiliate for what it is.
For this platform to be known as a university is well deserved because it truly provides absolutely all the necessary knowledge for anyone to become a successful Internet marketer.
To think it is possible to get started for FREE, and then maintain a Premium membership for less than a couple of pizzas per month is truly out of this world.
I wish you much success with WA, and you can count on me
should you need any assistance.
Blessings!